If you’re considering an autism assessment for yourself or your child, it’s completely normal to feel a mix of curiosity, hope, and nerves. An assessment is a step toward understanding, clarity, and support , not just a label. Knowing what to expect can help you feel more confident and prepared.
1. A Person-Centred Exploration
An autism assessment it’s a careful, compassionate exploration of how you or your child experience the world.
Most assessments combine:
Conversations about development and daily life
Observations in structured or play-based settings
Input from parents, carers, or people who know you well
It’s a journey to understand strengths, challenges, and lived experience, not a single test or tick-box exercise.
2. Talking Through Life & Development
A key part of the process is reviewing developmental history and everyday behaviour:
For children:
Early milestones (first words, social interactions, routines)
Play, learning, and sensory experiences
For adults:
Patterns across life
Communication, social interaction, and sensory experiences
These conversations are about sharing real experiences, not giving “right” answers.
3. Observations & Gathering Insights
Assessors often observe behaviour to better understand how someone navigates the world. This may include:
Play or interactive tasks for children
Social communication and subtle interaction patterns for adults
Additional information may be gathered from:
School reports
Other professionals who know the individual well
All these perspectives help create a holistic picture.
4. You Are Part of the Process
Your voice matters.
For children: parents and carers collaborate closely to provide context and insight.
For adults: your experiences guide the process, and input from people who know you well can help too.
You’re not being tested, you’re being understood.
5. Receiving the Report
At the end of the assessment, you’ll receive a detailed report. It may include:
Whether diagnostic criteria for autism are met
Strengths and areas of difference
Recommendations for support at home, school, or work
Practical next steps
Reports sometimes use clinical language, don’t worry if it feels overwhelming. A good assessor will walk you through it and explain what it means in real life.
6. It’s About Support, Not Just Diagnosis
An autism assessment is a doorway to:
Insight into behaviour and communication patterns
Guidance for families, schools, and workplaces
Educational, therapeutic, or workplace accommodations
Confidence in next steps
Understanding doesn’t change who you are, it helps you thrive.
7. Tips to Prepare
-Write down examples of behaviours, routines, and sensory experiences
-Gather school or previous assessment reports
- Note patterns of what feels easy or challenging
-Remember, you’re a partner in the process, ask questions and clarify anything you don’t understand
Take the First Step with Confidence
An autism assessment is thoughtful, person-centred, and empowering. It celebrates strengths, explores differences, and helps families and individuals access meaningful support.
At Life Skills Dojo, we guide you every step of the way, ensuring you leave informed, confident, and supported.
Book a free consultation to start your journey today.
